YOU ARE NOT READY TO GET MARRIED IF:-

You are not ready to get married if :-

You want your privacy all the time.
You always want to be left alone.

As single persons, a lot of us mostly have this desire to shut ourselves in, It could be physically or emotionally, we just don't see any reason or any need for anyone to pry into our personal thoughts, or affairs. Sometimes we want to enter our rooms and be alone without any intruder, not because we have any issue, it just comes as one of the 'normal' things single people do, alas! It is not something that a married person can afford to do every time and at Will, as it may affect our partners negatively, because its does not look good, when every moment, we leave our partners out, and shut ourselves in, even when he or she is someone who we have chosen to spend the rest of our lives with, and for same to be our companion, if you were the victim, and your partner just keeps shutting you out, telling you they need privacy, you will feel lonely, hurt, inadequate and unhappy.

Deciding to be married, is deciding to share most of your privacy with someone, so remember that, while deciding!

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