The Woman's Mind.

This country is worse off in protecting the girl child from sexual intimidation of all sorts. A girl who is a victim of forced sex will be stigmatized, shamed and bullied into allowing it to slide and the culprit is let off the hook. Some "policemen" will kukuma tell you that you enjoyed it. ...tufiakwa! Visiting some market places in Nigeria is a nightmare, for young ladies, the men there will be rubbing your shoulders, your arms, even smack your ass. ..and they will tell you, "na you go marry yourself? Or your body na gold?”. They are just lost. All of them. Most of them were told by their village head that women everywhere are their properties. Even those elderly shameless men on the street spanking the butts of grown women. It's been different for some of us. Growing up I remember walking by mom in the market any slight touch I have started screaming! Lolz.and making a tiny scene. It helped. Now I avoid! And will just tell them, "my husband wil...

We have one or more time(s) in our lives made the mistake of giving out things that are precious to us to people who do not deserve them, we have met friends, colleagues, spouses who are hell bent on changing us, from the person we are, to who they want us to be. 1 out of 3 of us found out that a person they had believed to be in love with, only left them a shadow of themselves. We traded our identity for who they had wanted us to be and we still weren't good enough for them. This is happening to some of us, as we speak. We have sacrificed our happiness to be with someone. We cannot even recall when we had a good laugh and, or a hearty talk, we even stepped down on our values and principles, hoping it will be worth it. At last it all ends the same way. Heart break, disappointment and loneliness. We should learn, we have to learn, .. When will we learn? because we "love" someone doesn't mean we should lose our self, empty our bank accounts, abandon our...

THE GIRLS broke bad to prove a point, dated the freshest guys, smoked the finest weeds, did the strong drugs, threw the dirtiest party, stayed out late the longest. Most of them started traveling away from school, cruising other towns, some dropped out but confused their innocent sponsors that they were still students. Some removed their unborn children they had carelessly got. Some had to get laid to get grades, some paid through their nose. they got dumped, the guy left a child, school put on hold, their looks and bodies changed, they broke their parents heart. Some died, some were used for rituals, others got terrible diseases, some turned addict and junkies,one or two got lucky and a clean slate to start again. The ones you didn't think could survive. They had all lived a lie, they got "destroyed", lost their Joy and innocence, leaving behind a shadow and a shell. They envy those they had mocked, who have turned out meaningfully,and they wish they had wa...