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Photo credit:Durex. So this young man, who happens to be married, was talking about how in 9 months time a lot of quarantine-babies will be born!!! Errm who amongst you all participated in finishing the condoms in stores all around the Country? I heard the rush was mad!!! Lazy yoots.😒 Well🙃considering the circumstances I may not entirely congratulate you😒 but I must commend those who chose to practice safety, especially in these difficult times where safety is the watch word, the government will be proud! (Not forgetting that if you abstain God will be more proud!) Somewhile ago, I had a brief conversation with Dr. Stella Agbogu who works with one of the branches of the General Hospital in Nigeria on the issue of safe sex. This period is definitely a time to share this,  I hope you learn a thing or two! What does unsafe sex means?  It means when a man have sex without using a condom or a woman without using diaphragm. Can you explain what a diaphragm means? ...

I had no doubt that Nkiru Wendy Francis's  story will inspire me as well as you. I first came across her on Nkechi Bianze's wall on Facebook. The Port Harcourt based, 30-year-old Nkiru got herself a fine car and had put it up on social media after being mercilessly dragged and shamed online earlier for buying an I phone worth half a million naira. The Abia born Master’s degree holder from Uniport who is currently running her P.H.D on Human Resource Management at the Rivers State University of Science and Technology will inspire you. When you were done with National Youth Service Corps, what did you venture in to? After NYSC I volunteered as a teacher,  then I got a job with FCMB. I was at FCMB for about 2 years. I started in 2014. I was being paid N29,400 (Twenty Nine Thousand, Four Hundred Naira.) I was a marketer. Though sometimes the commission brings it up to N45,000 – N50,000 but it was not easy to make the commission. I was doing this, plus taking care of my...

Valentine is here again. While some persons are be busy celebrating with their loved ones, some others are busy hating on love😃. A lot of us, including yours truly have experienced betrayal and heartbreak. That's one feeling that no one deserves. Here are five things to do to get through heartbreak. 1. DO NOT GO DOWN MEMORY LANE Delete almost every memory of both of you. Delete the SMSes, call log, pictures, and whatever fills your head with memories of that person. It works like magic. You're not allowed to have anything that may bring back memories of both of you. I remember deleting all the pictures of us when it happened to me. It's hard I know this, but you have to help yourself and yes it's effective. 2. SEE THE PERSON FOR WHO HE OR SHE IS: AN IMPERFECT HUMAN When you realise that he or she is human, you would not feel so confused about the whole situation and when you admit that humans can be imperfect just as the person had been, you will not waste...

It's Valentine again!!! From all I have read about this day, it sums up to a day we celebrate LOVE😍. Love we feel for our spouses, love we feel for our family and friends. It is a day we celebrate our loved ones. Here are 3 (Three) reasons why Valentine's day celebration is significant. THERE'S SO MUCH HATE IN THE WORLD When we look around, on the pages of Newspapers and on the News showing on different TV stations, we find hate of different sorts. Religious killings, ethnic fanaticism, toxic political rivalry, Gender war. Etc. Today all that matters is LOVE. Today is a perfect distraction from evil, from bile and wickedness. Today, love is flashed on our faces💕. On the face of the whole world. There's this underlining question tugging at us, 'why don't we try Love more?' VALENTINE'S DAY IS A DAY DEDICATED FOR THOSE IN LOVE Today further emphasizes the need to love someone. It gives a level of validity to the love we fee...