The Woman's Mind.

There are tones of childless women praying to the Lord for the fruit of the womb! God has answered one of such in a grand style. See!

This upcoming artist in an interview says she couldn't quit music for relationship! So as a lady, could you quit you job, of stop practing your career for your marriage? Or you expect the man to respect your wants, and you both should work it out.  Check out the full interview http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/02/not-trying-like-tiwa-savage-lola-savage/

The couple were not staying together, the man went back to his village after he lost his job. The woman remained, because of her job.  This same issue is rampant amongst Nigerian couple, I have a guy friend who said he could be away for a whole year, for work leaving his wife at home. This is an example of what could go wrong. http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/07/man-cuts-off-wifes-hand-over-adultery-allegation/

You are not ready to get married if :- You want your privacy all the time. You always want to be left alone. As single persons, a lot of us mostly have this desire to shut ourselves in, It could be physically or emotionally, we just don't see any reason or any need for anyone to pry into our personal thoughts, or affairs. Sometimes we want to enter our rooms and be alone without any intruder, not because we have any issue, it just comes as one of the 'normal' things single people do, alas! It is not something that a married person can afford to do every time and at Will, as it may affect our partners negatively, because its does not look good, when every moment, we leave our partners out, and shut ourselves in, even when he or she is someone who we have chosen to spend the rest of our lives with, and for same to be our companion, if you were the victim, and your partner just keeps shutting you out, telling you they need privacy, you will feel lonely, hurt, inadequate a...

It is no more news that we have some relationships where violence abound. In these relationship, the man hits the lady. Beats her blue and black. She is most times left with colours around her eyes, with it swollen and looking ugly for weeks. Others have their arms and legs marked, backs, shoulders etc. It is funny how two people who claim they love each other end up that way, with one party, who is perceived to be stronger, subjecting the other to physical brutality. It is really scary. We have heard stories, I have heard my share, I have even seen marks. I know a very young couple who have just concluded their divorce process, as a result of physical violence.   Some ladies as we speak, are still in a relationship where they are used as punching bags, their so called guy beat them 'stupid' every opportunity, every slight argument. I have heard also that there are some ladies who 'like' their guys beating them once in a while. I imagine that, but I refus...

We have on different occasions been turned down, for different reasons, by different people. Sometimes by people we cherish the most or by people we barely know but need a favour from. We have responded in different forms to these rejections, often times we feel really bad and worthless, or we get angry at or just hate the person that turned us down. Now remember somebody that have turned you down, and think how you felt toward that person, or how you still feel. Being turned down for what ever reason is not the end of the world. It is not even a big deal, except you think it is!  Here are five (5) facts you need to know about being turned down. 1. BEING SAID 'NO' TO DOES NOT MEAN THE PERSON IS BETTER THAN YOU ARE. Some persons have said 'no' to you for different reasons, maybe you seek their assistance, and they declined for one reason or the other, However, do not feel that such person holds the key to you getting what you seek,and with that fee...