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BE WHOLE!







We have one or more time(s) in our lives made the mistake of giving out things that are precious to us to people who do not deserve them, we have met friends, colleagues, spouses who are hell bent on changing us, from the person we are, to who they want us to be. 1 out of 3 of us found out that a person they had believed to be in love with, only left them a shadow of themselves. We traded our identity for who they had wanted us to be and we still weren't good enough for them.



This is happening to some of us, as we speak. We have sacrificed our happiness to be with someone. We cannot even recall when we had a good laugh and, or a hearty talk, we even stepped down on our values and principles, hoping it will be worth it. At last it all ends the same way. Heart break, disappointment and loneliness.



We should learn, we have to learn, .. When will we learn? because we "love" someone doesn't mean we should lose our self, empty our bank accounts, abandon our values, stop chasing our dreams, turn our back to our families, desert our friends. Forget reality, LOSE OUR SENSES. The person who expect you to do these things, doesn't understand what love is, funny I do not pride myself to understand it too, but I am quite sure, Love ain't selfish.



Do not lose yourself attempting to gain someone else.



It has never been worth it.
It takes TWO to Tango.

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