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IF ONLY WE COULD STOP STRESSING; AND HAVE FAITH!

I had to take a bike home tonight, normal 50naira bike cos its close to home. But the Two "bikes" I saw said 100naira, the normal Nigerian bike men taking advantage of the night time. I said #70, the first said #80 and left, the second said #100 last!, all my body said chinelo enter and gerrout of here why do you like pricing too much! I was very exhausted, drained, tired, even looking for a shoulder to cry on, 😔(that aside😀). I actually didn't enter the second, even with my aching feeling, I just suddenly gathered this inner "mind" and refused! Then the third bike came, in my mind, I wanted to say #80, but still enter if its still #100, but to my pleasant surprise, he said #70!, the same #70 I first asked for.😀. Of course I got in, in a minute I was home. My mind told me this; Sometimes we struggle much for things that are not meant to be, because we are impatient, we be like, "if it's not him, I will kill myself! I will commit suicide!" . "If I do not get money/admission to that foreign school, I will loose my mind!" "If that business doesn't work out! I will died!" Some of us go as far as shutting friends and family out, if we do not get that thing we are aiming for. We even go ahead to sell all our belongings and empty our savings so that we can just make that thing work! We loose sleep, loose appetite, loose friends, do terrible stuffs just to get that thing, By all means! Sometimes all we need is to breath. Breath in, then out. Then be a little bit patient. Good things will eventually come your way. The exact thing that you want That person with the kinda heart you are looking for will stop by your way. You wouldn't need to stress. Please don't settle for a person you cannot afford, because you are desperate, Because you think he/she is your last option Don't sell yourself out, because you think its your last hope, Your last chance. If you have an urge to pause, then pause and listen to your head. No matter how much you emotions are carelessly yearning, no matter how much you have resigned to take in that eternal torture and "manage". Obey your instinct and pause. Maybe you will get a better bargain, a better offer, a better someone. The exact one your heart first thought of. So many persons have gotten theirs this exact way. By trusting their instinct. Don't be too much in a haste in life, with a little prayer, a little patience, a little faith. You will find the exact person Get the exact Job Have the exact life you are thinking of. Remain Calm. All things are possible. Only believe.

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