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ROLL UP YOUR SLEEVE ONCE IN A WHILE: EVEN FOR THE "STRONG" LIFE'S SHORT!

This discuss is for the perfectionist, for the 'best' type of people, who are rocking their world, who are 'achieving' in their various fields of life, who are being looked up to by others, who are doing so well. Those that we should emulate and take similarly good steps that they have taken, so do not see this writeup as an excuse to be a mediocre, to have an average mentality, for even Jesus speaking in the Bible in the book of Revelation, said that when ".. You are neither hot nor cold -but lukewarm- he shall spit you out of his mouth! I like people who are focused, whose mind and attention appears to be on the details of their lives. I love such people who are articulated, and tidy. You are sure that everything will be alright and will go as planned with them around. Some of us are like this, always trying to stay perfect, we dread the thought of going wrong. We cannot afford to make a mistake no matter how insignificant, so we get so angry, shocked and ashamed of ourselves when we make some mistakes that a human is prone to make sometimes. We feel like being swallowed by the earth when ever our "superiors" chide us for not doing a thing perfectly, which of course, we rarely do. This might be because of how we have presented ourselves in the past, as one who never go wrong and is always ontop of our game. That is exactly how people around us now view us, so much that it seems out of place and disgraceful for us to make a little mistakes. However, feeling that way is an aberration, because we should not be ashamed to be human, when you make an omission, when you forget that appointment, when you do something wrong, in some occasions where you know you have always been so 'prim and proper' that "perfection" is killing you, please do learn to embrace your human nature and manage same. Yes, you should learn to be better, and improve on that thing you got wrong and refuse to make the same mistake again. Than feeling so bad, hiding in shame or even losing confidence or trust in yourself. Its okay not to be at your best all the time. You too are human. So I write to those who are working so hard like they should. Those putting in their mind and soul into every task they are involved in. I am saying that where there is a time you make a tiny mistake, do not shoot yourself, don't doubt your skill, don't feel embarrassed and decide to withdraw, rather keep your feet firm on the earth, and walk forward while making necessary corrections, learning what needs to be learnt and bouncing back to continue rocking your world. I say to that Lady, or Gentleman, It's okay not to be Okay all the time.

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