REFUSE TO BE LABELLED!

Come to a Level where you don't care about others opinion about your Appearance, more particularly, your physical "features". How will one so called guy, who obviously lacks home training and ignorantly prides himselves to be "OPEN" and "saying-it-as-it-is", come around and tell you in a rude manner, "you are too fat, you are too thin, or you are short, you have inappropriate boobs, or your skin is this or that." Then you see my sister going about feeling uncomfortable, starving herself, looking for who will tell her she has reduced. Whether in a relationship or not and there is this guy who keeps complaining about your size or looks, constantly, no amount of magic you as a lady will be able to perform to get the approval you are looking for from that person. It will be from one complain to another. Please, ladies be comfortable in your own skin, love your body, don't keep disturbing people with stupid constant questions like, "am I fat"? "Is my belly big"? "Is my hips wide"? Again and again and again!!! Most of our looks and bodily features are sometimes, inherited,I have seen a lot of very attractive and full of life big-sized ladies who their husband cannot trade for any other. If that man isn't encouraging you and/or telling you how attractive you are to him, like that! Let him leave and go and look for his African Queen. Stay with the person who is ready to stay with only You,"You" as was created! The next time anyone tells you, you need to change the way you look and start looking like a Model It will do you good to tell such person, To "Move on, and stop talking Nonsense!

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