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ENJOY BEING RESPONSIBLE FOR YOURSELF!

Growing up can be difficult, especially for those who grew up having some measure of parental care and considering the fact that growing up comes with personal responsibilities and we have to "think", "decide" and "act" for ourselves". For some of us... GRowing up is scary! We have to make very important decisions by ourselves, and deal with what comes out of it, if we are fortunate, and with our past training, experiences and goodluck, the output could be fruitful, however, sometimes, something might just go wrong and it will end up being a disaster. Now, we have to work harder and be more result oriented, we now have lesser, leisure times to "fool" around, fooling around could be really fun, and some of us eventually had the work done anyway cos there was just this adult in our lives who made sure we are redirected to the Work on grond. Now "its all woman for herself". We have to be focus to achieve anything worthwhile. The Responsibilities have shifted! Those who has been contributing to our growth in all levels are now hoping to get back from us, in any way, directly or indirectly. We now have a feel of what it is to be depended on, It is truly a bitter sweet feeling! Growing up on the other hand is a wonderful experience, it is cool to know we are not where we used to be, we are now living our future! IT IS LOVELY TO SEE OUR FORMATIVE DAYS PAYING OFF! A lot of growing up event had happened to us, like going through school, experiencing different changes in us, from puberty, to managing our emotions, handling peer pressure, handling parents too and blending into the society. Now we are all grown, and we experience how those "beautiful" days help shape our lives now and gives us balance. CHALLENGES ARE EXCITING! Some of us, see it that way, taking up a task, "fighting" your way through and achieving success or something rewarding at the end of it. That is what "people changing the World" do, and being all grown and "responsible" also gives you this opportunity to think of Changing the World too. FOR THOSE OF US WHO LOOK FORWARD TO HAVING A WONDERFUL FAMILY! When we are all grown, we find our self mentally prepared to start a family of our own. We now feel this confidence of "working out"a plan for the future and we even look forward to scale the hurdles it brings along! I am positive that the dividend of being all grown up are numerous and exciting, after being a child and enjoying all the childish ways, getting to the phase of a woman or man is something worth cherishing! So whenever the chills of Growing up finds you, Remember Me.

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