A lot of people have fashioned their life to suit the trend of the society, they always want to impress,and with the coming of social media, like Facebook, Instagram, Snap chat, etc, ladies are trying so hard to outshine in physical appearance and material stuffs.
The society should not dictate the kind of phone you should own, so don't go around disturbing some man to buy a phone that you cannot afford in a year time. The society should not decide what quality of clothes you should put on or shoes, or hair or bags, be contented with what you have and work harder to get more. If you are lucky to find who buys for you, Cool, but in the event where you develop sleepless night thinking of hair and clothes and all the men you will tax,in order to buy them, then my dear,
You are a slave to the society.
Another category of Slaves of the society are the girls who are searching for "Mr Perfect". So that they will snap with them and upload it on Facebook, and Caption it " My handsome hubby" and Facebook friends will see that the guy is fine and click 500likes. Some girls will meet a guy that likes them and wants to get married to them,and they like too, but because the guy isn't cousin to Dangote or he is not as handsome with pointed nose like "Mr World" or he is not speaking Harvard English, they will leave him and go to meet one fine womanizer who will keep beating them every day. After they have missed their real luck they will be looking for who have "bewitched" them, and forget their quest to impress the society.
Do what makes you happy, appreciate what you have and live with it while working hard to get better, don't fall into the temptation of wanting to impress people, or keep thinking about what "people" will say, follow your heart and be proud of it. At the end its all about you. It is you that will live with the consequences of any actions you take.
STOP CARING ABOUT THE OPINION OF A SOCIETY WHO DON'T CARE IF
You live or not
Eat or not
You are happy or not
Live your life and move toward everything and everyone who makes you happy and the society will emulate you.
Life is too short and too interesting to care about the opinion of the people.
Live your life in all the happy ways you can!!!
Don't be a slave to the SOCIETY!
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