STOP CALLING HER "MY WIFE"!

"SHE IS NOT YOUR WIFE SHE IS YOUR DAUGHTER "!!! Yes tell this to those "bad" men, those secret perverts , who come around your little girl or your niece etc, calling them "my wife". A lot of parents have left their daughters to the mercies of heartless men who have found the space to use these little "baby girls" as toys, for their sexual satisfaction. These uncles- blood uncles, neighborhood uncles have succeeded in manipulating these little girls in various forms, occasionally "touching" their sexual parts, like their budding breast, inserting their fingers into their "private part", kissing them continually and passionately, even having Sexual intercourse with them. Doing all these to a growing little girl who has not fully understood her feelings and have not agreed to explore them, is not only evil and from the pit of hell, it is also a Criminal Act that has a Penalty of years of imprisonment and therefore should be reported to the appropriate security agencies of the government. So that we can rid our society of these agents of darkness. Unfortunately, a lot of victims will not speak up, out of ignorance, fear and shame, and not to be labelled, "victims".(Stigmatization). I had this kind of experience growing up, during primary school stage, it was holiday period, mom usually dropped us off at this Pastor's house, he was living alone, his wife had died,and mom had the mind that, he could teach us more of the ways of the Lord during the holidays! I was around 7years old or 8years. The pastor was a family pastor, ( my mom liked all those family pastor things) he prays for our family and encourages us. I really didn't know much about those things, all I knew and cannot forget was that, that pastor usually kissed me on my mouth, and he tells me to come and sit down on his laps, and why I didn't like going to his house, and i felt personally disturbed and afraid was that every time we go to his house, he would send my siblings to go and buy somethings for us all to eat, every time!, and will specifically tell me to stay back, I hated it! Cos he will then tell me to come and sit on his laps,and kiss me for a long time on my mouth,I remember feeling numb those times, I realise now that, that act was wrong, that I had an option to have reported to someone, I was in my personal bondage, dying in silence. All I feel now is vexation and hatred that I try not to feel, every time I recalled this experience. That was not all, I had a blood-uncle, amongst the uncles staying with us, That one will occasionally drag me to himself or pull me down, and be kissing me on my mouth, and I will be pushing him away and he will be laughing, I thought it was just one sort of unusual play.. ONLY IF MY MOM HAD EXPLAINED ALL THESE THINGS TO US, AND INFORMED US TO SPEAK OUT! Seriously I really didn't understand the gravity of all of it. I thank God it was not worst. If I am not a christian I would have wished I killed them both. That is what my carnal mind-from the anger I feel-is telling me. Anyways, mine aside, there are other ladies who had similar or worst experience, and can secretly or open relate. My worry now, are little girls every where having similar experiences, currently, occasionally, being molested by one hideous man,in different forms unimaginable, in different hideouts, only God knows. It is for Parents to teach their girls and boys early about the existence of this vile, tell them >>>" If anybody touches you HERE come and tell me!" Tell them "This Act is very wrong come and report to me if it happens" , and tell them the reasons in the simplest ways possible. Tell them " Refuse to sit on ANY uncle's laps!" TELL THEM! TELL THEM!! TELL THEM!!! INFORMATION IS POWER. WE MUST EMPOWER OUR GIRLS AND WOMEN !!! We ALL are victims directly or indirectly. We are all involved in this work of "bringing light" and "bringing to light" the evil perpetuated against the GIRL-CHILD. they are our Mothers, Sisters, Niece, Cousins, Relations and Friends.