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ABEG, GOVERNMENT DEY PAY "FINE GIRL" MONEY? stop teaching Nigerian "Fine girls" bad thing!

You go to the market to buy stuffs, when its time to bargain for what you wanna pay for, then, especially if the seller is a man, you will hear the seller starts saying.. "Ahn ahn as you fine like this? You dey "price"?. then I will ask him "Government dey dash fine girl money?" Will a "fine girl" not seek to get value for her money? Keke drivers and "Bike men" sabi use this line well well. "Na as you fine like this! You con dey price?" "how fine girl like you go dey price?". Abeg government dey dash fine girls land for Nigeria? I usually ask them. Several of the questioners will boldly go further to substantiate their claim by saying, "You wan tell me no man dey take care of you? My answer .."I am not married". And they will go further and be saying many many things. Ladies, hear this, "Fine" or not. You should go out and make money that you will spend! Refuse to go along with the "fine girl" sentiment. A lot of beautiful ladies who are far more prettier than you and I are setting the pace in this same society. Finer looking ladies are doing greatly in Politics, in Media, in Sport, in Business, in all those well known Companies we think its only the men working there. Even as Lecturers, Writers, as professionals, as Managers, and Members of Board of Directors, of Multimillion Companies, and surprisingly these women have great families and supportive husbands. These "fine ladies" are touching lives directly or indirectly, including yours, they are also earning cool cash, and spending the money they earn. Of course this is why these kind of women will "Price" and want to get value for their money. Cos, these set of women did not just fly up the ladder, they took the stairs. From down, up. With perseverance, courage, dedication to their dreams, with their sweat, with sleepless nights and toiling days! So beautiful Ladies! when you hear, "You should not do this or that, only because you are a fine girl". Do not fall for it, for what it indirectly means, is that you are entitled to the luxuries of life even without lifting a finger simply because you can allow a MAN to explore and exploit your "beauty" and then give you physical cash or some kind of gift. This then, will be a shame, as physical beauty should not be all you are worth as a lady, cos physical appearance fades away, a lady should worth more, by having a great mental capacity which can be gotten by studying and taking school seriously,or/and having a well developed life-long talent/skill that could carry her throughout her life time. This surpasses being a "fine girl". Next time someone tells you that you are meant to "have" money in excess because you are a "fine girl". Ask if "Government dey pay fine girl money?". Every fine girl should try to earn her money, then get value for it, and not rely on getting money from those who will give her only for her to pay with her "beautiful/fine Body.

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