Sometimes life can be very difficult, nothing seems to be working, everything is falling apart with your eyes wide open, and it is frustrating thinking about how helpless you are towards the situation, it's a worst feeling when the problems could be solved with money, and you have none, then you become desperate, searching frantically for a way out.
This piece is about you who have found yourself in this situation and have decided to find a way out, which is a good decision, however it is you who have choosen to get into harmful ventures, no matter the not-so-good effect it will have on you on the long run, that I am particular about.
You have decided to listened to nobody, because you think, they have no idea what you are going through and have no right to suggest or advice you in any way, but please do think again. There are so many people who have been more unlucky than you are, It could be that they didn't have a family capable of providing their basic needs, not even distant relatives, so they had to fend for themselves and a lot of them around us are and have done really greatly, some of them even go as far as sponsoring themselves through school by doing one menial job to another and they successfully graduated. If they do not tell their stories we may not have the slightest idea what they have been through. Yours may be far better.
That you are going through a stage of lack does not give you the express permission to tow a path that the end is destruction. When a lady, gets involve in having sex for money, professionally or unprofessionally, she puts herself in risk of contracting Sexually Transmitted Diseases, even getting pregnant and messy "abortion ordeal" may follow, which could affect her health and entire body system, also there are insecurities that comes along with it. You deserve better. Do not justify you act, a lot of ladies have gone through worst circumstances and have choosen a saner path, have decided to hustle right, have served others so as to learn a trade or a handiwork, or decided to bring themselves "low" and cut their coat according to their clothes, so that they can survive daily and grow. There is no justification for bad living. Greed and pride and dead conscience are most times the major distractions, you may choose to go that way no matter how risky and evil you know it is, because of the more "gains" it brings. Then because of what you will acquire with it to feed your pride. You quickly forget that God who you pray to is the same God who said this, .."What shall it Profit a Man to GAIN the whole world and loose his soul"
Also remember the foolish rich man in the Bible who after he acquired so much wealth, he felt it was time to rest and party and God came that night and chided him, telling him how he was rich in material stuffs but does not have a rich relationship with God. That his Soul will go with God that night and who will inherit his wealth?.
This message is for you to think critical if the path you have decided to tow is the best for living. A lot of people have gone through worst, and still choosen the right way, which is free from regrets. No matter how humble your beginning and background is, it does not determine how your life will end, Good attracts more good, bad attracts more bad, you will reap what you sow. A man is said to intend the consequences of his action, even a woman. So do not come saying, "You do not know, that it is a mistake". It is not, YOU KNEW EVERYTHING.
Do not let Greed and the Pride of life destroy you.
Be-you-till-full Women!!!

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