A man do not need to have pile of money stacked somewhere for you to look his way. A man who engages daily in a decent task to eke out a living should be respected, a man who pays his basic bills promptly should be given attention. He has shown a level of responsibility, and a responsible man is vital in a long term relationship.
Do not be a lady that ignores the "down to earth" guys, who are toiling daily to earn resources for the demands of life, and give ears to those who you cannot guess the source of their flowing wealth.
Most Ladies are searching for "false security", and they have a notions that a "rich" man, is the answer. A man who has already gotten all the comfort he needs for life, so that they will not lift a finger, or suffer any kind of discomfort in life ever again.
When as a lady you are frantically hoping and praying and selecting, having your interest for only men who seem to have "made it" as some put it, you may fall into the wrong hands, maybe a fraudster, a thieve, a ritualist or a man in "secret society". All these things are still real. We also have genuinely wealthy men out there, but if the major reason you are considering the proposal of a man is because of his bank account, even when you cannot stand him, then auntie think about your decision again. Cos money isn't everything, the Bible even said money will sometimes develop wings and fly away. There is a lot of things that we need to be happy that money cannot buy, like "peace of mind"and true simple happiness, and when you go into that marriage remember that even if you decide to come out later on, you cannot come out the same way you were. A lot would have changed. Prevention is indeed better than cure.
There is dignity in Labour, it is a beautiful sight to see a man working out his income sincerely. It is an admirable notion to know that his woman is by his side giving him all the support he needs. When the source of the family income is decent and transparent and not shady, it helps the family stay healthy and last long.
There is dignity in Labour.
"YOU RELATE WITH PEOPLE, BUT YOUR FAMILY WILL ALWAYS BE THERE BEFORE AND AFTER THAT OFFICE " MRS. M. OBUSOM~CHAIR PERSON, OSLG, DELTA STATE.(INTERVIEW! INSPIRING WOMAN SERIES).
As a teenager, I admired those people who occupy leadership positions at all levels, especially in Government. Most young girls then have nursed the ambition of being wives to the President or Governors of different States. Though now we know better, that we also can become President and Governors too. However having our spouse occupying notable positions in Government is great news, but this could come with lots of responsibilities. This is an INTERVIEW with Mrs Miriam Obusom, the wife of Mr Chuks Obusom the Chairman of Oshimili South Local Government Council in Delta State. Nigeria. Here she talks about her spouse, their journey so far in Public Service, their start together, family, love, children, and life! An inspiring read!!! YOU WILL LOVE IT! ENJOY! CAN WE MEET YOU MA'AM? My name is Barr. Mrs. Miriam Chuks Obusom. I work with the Ministry of Justice, Delta State.I am from Buguma in Rivers State, married to the love of my life who is from oko Anala Delta State....
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