A man do not need to have pile of money stacked somewhere for you to look his way. A man who engages daily in a decent task to eke out a living should be respected, a man who pays his basic bills promptly should be given attention. He has shown a level of responsibility, and a responsible man is vital in a long term relationship.
Do not be a lady that ignores the "down to earth" guys, who are toiling daily to earn resources for the demands of life, and give ears to those who you cannot guess the source of their flowing wealth.
Most Ladies are searching for "false security", and they have a notions that a "rich" man, is the answer. A man who has already gotten all the comfort he needs for life, so that they will not lift a finger, or suffer any kind of discomfort in life ever again.
When as a lady you are frantically hoping and praying and selecting, having your interest for only men who seem to have "made it" as some put it, you may fall into the wrong hands, maybe a fraudster, a thieve, a ritualist or a man in "secret society". All these things are still real. We also have genuinely wealthy men out there, but if the major reason you are considering the proposal of a man is because of his bank account, even when you cannot stand him, then auntie think about your decision again. Cos money isn't everything, the Bible even said money will sometimes develop wings and fly away. There is a lot of things that we need to be happy that money cannot buy, like "peace of mind"and true simple happiness, and when you go into that marriage remember that even if you decide to come out later on, you cannot come out the same way you were. A lot would have changed. Prevention is indeed better than cure.
There is dignity in Labour, it is a beautiful sight to see a man working out his income sincerely. It is an admirable notion to know that his woman is by his side giving him all the support he needs. When the source of the family income is decent and transparent and not shady, it helps the family stay healthy and last long.
There is dignity in Labour.
It is not a waste of money to take your children through standard schools, especially primary and secondary school. Their ways of reasoning and speaking, are mainly affected by their interaction and training in these periods of their lives. It is not a bad idea for your child to attend boarding schools also, especially those schools that have high level of discipline and care. Boarding school makes them to have stronger personalities, to be independent-decision-makers. And give them focus, and a sense of purpose. It has it disadvantages also, which might be that the child may join bad companies. However the chance of a well trained Godly child to escape from bad company, is high. I didn't consider it. Being bullied may be another disadvantage, but this one could act to make the child stronger and to device means to overcome the act of being bullied. The burden to inculcate good virtues, beliefs and values into them, is solely on the parents. Which should be done daily and inten...
Be-you-till-full Women!!!
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