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REAL FRIENDS ARE ALL YOU NEED!

Your friend loves you, and you know this fact, you expect your friend to do some stuffs for the sake of your "friendship" and your friend usually does, you do also for your friend. You expect your friend to go miles for you, to be there for you, to listen to your problems, your sadness without getting pissed, to listen to your success stories without being jealous, and that's exactly how you guys roll. In good or bad times, you have cried and laughed together, you have even talked to God together. You have journeyed through thick and thin together. You respect each other, you both know your boundaries towards one another, you know your likes and dislikes, your fears and pride. You know and respect one another's interest and passions. You have come to love yourselves,and you are both very comfortable with your imperfections and are living perfectly with them. NOW THINK ABOUT HIM OR HER YOU HAVE A FRIEND!!! This post is about people who are not your friends. Those people who stole into your life in the guise of being your friend. Who most often than not, disappoints you without notice and feels not even the slightest form of remorse, those people who you think you have found a friend in, but they can never ever make the tiniest bit of sacrifice for you, cannot go one inch, not to talk of one mile for you, those people who came into your life with the sole intention of satisfying all their personal interest ONLY, and not giving a glance to any interest of yours. Those peeps who since they came around as pseudo friends all you have experienced in your life is one "bad attitude" or the other, you have felt no real JOY having them, they tend to make you feel imperfect, inadequate and moody. Let us put these false new/old friends away from our minds, cos they are not OUR REAL FRIENDS. They will merely bring sadness to us. WE KNOW OUR REAL FRIENDS. Let's stick with them to avoid HEART ATTACK. THOSE FAKE Friends may not be bad people, they aren't just OUR FRIENDS. They may even be "FRIENDS" to some other person, but we should blank them out of our minds, and know that there are some people who cannot be our FRIEND just like our REAL FRIENDS WE KNOW. DO NOT TAKE YOUR REAL FRIENDS FOR GRANTED.

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