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THE PROBLEM IS ALWAYS WITH THE OFFENDER.

You see this life, do not let anyone deliberately hurt your feelings, no matter how much you feel they mean to you. Have you had friends in your life who take you for granted, who offend your sensibility, by hurting your sense of dignity and pride.Let go of them, no matter how hard it is, you got to end that relationship or whatever it is called. This is because such relationship is toxic to you, and it keeps harming and contaminating you day by day, and if you let it continue, what will be left, is a shadow of yourself. You might not take pride in yourself anymore, it may affect your self esteem, reducing it to all time low. You will just be left feeling worthless. Which is a dangerously suicidal state of mind. It may be that this person constantly lies to you, again and again, even on crucial issues, and you feel hurt over and over again, it could also be that all such person focuses and hints on are on all the things that are wrong with you, everything that makes you imperfect. I had this good friend or so I thought, who had a way of discrediting me, privately and publicly, always takes up any opportunity to judge me out of context, which may sound really rude toward me, in the mind of the next person, but my friend seems not to bother, like that was his intention. This may have happened to someone reading this, that a friend of yours usually takes advantage of your friendship or see your familiarity as an opportunity to ridicule you in anyway possible. Learn to walk away, toxic and negative people are to be discarded, no matter how fond of them you have become, you deserve better, help yourself. You may really miss them because they may actually be really interesting, just like that friend of mine, we had a lot in common, we actually understood ourselves to a large extent, he was a good buddy, but I tried so hard to condone the insults and his belittling, he even tells me to cut him off if I wanted to, after I threatened that I would, I decided now that this person do not respect me or consider my feelings, and I took the both step of cutting him off, we were just two really good friend nothing more, but I still had to block all contacts route, I finally accepted that he was toxic to me, and he ended up producing negative vibes towards me, that most times threatens my sense of worth. It could be a person of same sex or opposite sex, whenever you confirm your feelings that this person isn't making you feel good, but deliberately or indirectly makes you feel terrible about yourself, always, find a way to end such relationship, life is hard enough to hang around a Sadist. Get back your peace of mind Today. It may be hard at the initial time, but you will get over them. You will create space for more positive people.

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