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WHEN IT COMES TO BEING TRULY HAPPY. "BE SELFISH".YOU CAN'T AFFORD LESS!

Imagine where a radio presenter askes listeners if they could nickname their baes with the names of fruit and a lady sents her own text saying, she would call her bae bitterleaf! ..That he is not making her happy! Lolz. Funny abi? It actually provokes a cause for deep thoughts, like, why will a person keep on staying in a relationship where they are not happy. For so long? For how long? Especially when you have seen that the situation is beyond redemption, you have seen that the reason why you are not comfortable and happy is the constant act of your partner, the person keeps making you sad repeatedly, you have even forgotten what happiness in a relationship looks like, you wouldn't even recognize it if it bit you on the behind. Then I think it's time to step out to inhale some fresh air, and leave all the negativity behind, all the bitterness and constant sadness. Do not worry, you will make it out alone, that person haven't always been there, keep an open mind and you will just well find someone who respects you more, you could use your past experience to make the next one work, you know your mistakes in the last one and make sure you address them in the start of the next. There is a better person out there, always,and you will be lucky to find, especially where you are now more patient, more confident, more ready. It is better to be single, loving yourself, developing yourself, learning new good stuffs, having a lot of time to share with friends and loved ones than to be with someone who makes you feel lost, who drains the life and enthusiasm outta you! He may have told you how he is the only person who would understand and tolerate you,and that there is no one else for you. Refuse to believe such. Be determined to live a happy life on earth. This determination to be happy with your life no matter the cost, will lead you towards true happiness. Which comes in simple form, without a lot of drama and baggages. The goal is always happiness ...perfect peace. Never lose sight of the Goal.

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