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STAY DIFFERENT. THE EARTH NEEDS YOUR SPICE TOO!

Be You! Be silly, be crazy, be arrogant, be bold, be wierd, be different, but the bottom line is, do not forget to be good and to be human. We cannot all be alike, it wouldn't be this interesting, it wouldn't be this colourful, nah, it wouldn't be. We cannot all be really smart, we cannot all be so hardworking, or very religious, or so serious or even that diligent. In the same vein we cannot all be fashionistas, or vain or silly, or playful or simple. No we can't all be the same, but we are all one thing, We are SPECIAL. I am SPECIAL, say it to your self, "you are special". I may not be very smart, or so intellectually sound, I may not be a good dancer, or a great singer. I may not be a motivational speaker, or a world leader, but I am special, I know I am special, for being a mother, for being a father , for being a daughter or a son, for being a husband, a wife , a brother or a sister for being a FRIEND, Gosh! how special can I get! I have love in me, I help others, I have exciting hobbies, I have great Interests, I have passions, I have a focus, I have a life. We know a lot of notable people who have lived on earth and most are still here on earth, who understand how different they are , and have decided to explore this to the fullest, those people who we look up to as being unique and outstanding. We are same too, Special in our own ways, everyone of us, some of us however do not see the light in this, that is why we worry when we are criticized for not acting like everyone else in the society. We cannot make any notable impact in life if we do not realize early enough that we are specially built, not like the person next to us. We will feel more comfortable in our skin and appreciate ourselves more when we consciously accept that we are not suppose to be "the same" with next person, then we wouldn't see the need to compete or envy them, but will focus on being the best version of ourselves, We wouldn't feel the need to do as they do, or be them in any way, we would remain ourselves, We would be more happy and more fulfilled cos our fulfillment will be by our set standard, and not by anyone else. Life really gets more Beautiful when we realize that its OK to be different! Variety of course, is the Spice of life!!!

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